Reasons to Write A Legacy Letter
Your legacy isn’t just about your assets.
Of course, as part of our holistic financial planning process, we’ll help you coordinate with attorneys and tax experts to create an estate plan that will provide for your heirs in accordance with your last wishes.
But hopefully, after planning for your vision, you’ve come to appreciate what your money can and cannot buy. That’s why we recommend that our clients write a Legacy Letter to help their heirs think about their own relationships to money in more meaningful ways.
What is a Legacy Letter?
A Legacy Letter is a way for you to share your values, life lessons, cherished memories, hopes for your family’s future, and anything else that is really important to you.
This isn’t a will, so you won’t be assigning any of your assets. This isn’t a family history, although you might include things you learned from your own parents and grandparents that you want your heirs to be mindful of in their own lives. This is you, reflecting on a life well-lived, passing on everything you’ve accumulated that can’t be bought or sold.
One of the great things about this exercise is that your Legacy Letter can be whatever you want it to be. It could be a typed or hand-written letter. It could be an audio or video recording. It could even be a mix, such as a printed list of your most cherished values accompanied by an mp3 you dictate into your phone. Use whatever media makes it easiest for you to speak to your family in your own voice.
What will my heirs want to know?
Some folks look at their kids and grandkids and think they won’t appreciate something like that. But eventually, your heirs are going to confront many of the same life and money challenges you have.
They’ll probably face the scary prospect of leaving an unfulfilling career. They’ll wonder how much support to their children is too much. They’ll be tempted to make a big-ticket purchase just to keep up with the Joneses.
Explaining how you did or didn’t stick to your values at these memorable moments will show your heirs that you can’t just throw money at life’s problems. Your Legacy Letter will be a road map leading your family to better decisions and more fulfilling uses of their time and assets. And if your estate plan includes charitable giving, explaining why particular causes were important to you could inspire a tradition of giving in your family that does good for generations.
When should I write my Legacy Letter?
The golden rule of all estate planning is don’t wait. If something unexpected happens to you or your spouse, it’s so important that you have a plan in place that protects your assets and distributes them as you see fit.
That applies to your Legacy Letter as well. Your values are arguably your most important asset. In years to come, your letter will be a source of comfort and inspiration to your family.
And while this might seem like an activity for a retiree, many of our younger clients may find writing a Legacy Letter very beneficial. You can write a legacy letter at any stage of life. For example, if you’re getting married, you and your spouse could write a joint letter that describes your hopes and dreams for the future.
If your children are launching into their careers, you could share your lessons about succeeding in life. The possibilities are endless. You can look forward to updating their Legacy Letters with more life experiences down the road.
If you’re having trouble getting started with your own Legacy Letter, we’d be happy to help you jump-start the process. Your stories and your values are every bit as important to us as your money. We’ll do our best to honor that as we walk with you on your way to living your vision.